Conditional Love Or Conditional Relationship

 Conditional Love

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  Conditional Relationship 

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Forty three years living experience on this planet is ,You have to learn everything in this world.For example, you have to learn how to speak, walk, eat and drink.Whatever be the work, job, business, you have to learn.

No one has to learn how to love someone.Love is the desire of your soul.

Even a new born baby knows what love is,Know how to love everyone who is in this world.

That is why it is said that love does not go, it goes.

Love is the basic need of human being.Everyone is looking for love only.

Some people are searching for the same love in wealth.

Some people are searching for the same love in amassing many worldly things.

Some people find that love in sex.

But that love is within you.  There is nowhere outside.When you yourself are filled with love, then you will be able to give love to others.Otherwise, you will keep on depending on others.

To get this love.




Conditional love, love is "earned" on the basis of conscious or unconscious conditions being met by the lover.


Conditional love can be defined as just that--love with conditions. This means that your love for another person, or another person's love for you, is contingent on certain actions, or things going on. See that common word if? That's a clear indicator of a conditional relationship.


Conditional love examples include if a partner tells you they will only love you if you stay in shape or your mate tells you that you must keep your job if you want to keep them. 


When someone loves us conditionally, it means that they put terms, restrictions, or rules on the giving of their love. While a person can have feelings of deep care or affection for you, their love is conditional if it feels like you have to earn it. Additionally, conditional love often vanishes during difficult times.


On the other hand, conditional love is conducive to healthy relationships. It's a way of setting healthy boundaries and expectations in relationships that allow you to maintain respect for yourself, your partner, and the relationship.


You can't love someone unconditionally unless your love remains unchanged despite their actions. 






      Unconditional Love 

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Unconditional love, love is "given freely" to the loved one "no matter what".


Unconditional love means that an individual will love you no matter what happens and what you do.


Deep positive feelings include: gratitude, vitality (aliveness), inner satisfaction, peace, joy and love (the true, unconditioned love, not the clinging, needing state of co-dependence).


Unconditional Love Means 


1. Put your own needs to the side. ...

2. Be patient with others. ...

3. Be encouraging with others. ...

4. Be a strong support. ...

5. Listen to your loved one without interrupting. ...

6. Let them know that you're proud of the progress they've made. ...

7. Encourage them by telling them how important they are to you.



         True Love

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True love is an acceptance of who you are as a person. Even when your partner doesn't agree with you, they don't try to change you. 

Full form of LOVE is 'Long-lasting Original Valuable Emotions'.

Real love is about compassion and generosity,

True love is a unique and passionate bond that connects you as a couple that wants the best for the other person regardless of what that means for them. It is the foundation for a healthy, loving relationship. True love is authentic and genuine.


For a successful and healthy long-term relationship and marriage, love is not conditional. 


Essentially, true love means that you have an unwavering, unbreakable and unparalleled fondness and devotion for your partner. It's also defined by an emotional as well as physical connection with him or her that runs immeasurably deep.




Man Love 2 woman equally

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“A man may be able to emotionally commit and attach himself to two women at the same time. However, in most cases, a woman will not be able to do the same. Women are emotionally inclined to attach and commit differently than men.


Yes it CAN! Love can happen twice.



Test Unconditional love

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A person who loves you unconditionally would try to make you happy through small gestures like sending you flowers with a note or bringing home your favourite pastry while returning from office. While they do these small gestures of love, they do not expect anything in return, not even your acknowledgment.



True Love By Krishna

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“To love without condition, to talk without intention, to give without reason, care without expectation, that's the spirit of true love.”


Geeta says about love

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I am the same to all beings, and my love is ever the same; but those who worship me with devotion, they are in me and I am in them. For if even one who does evil were to worship me with all his soul, he must be considered righteous, because of his righteous will.




      Thanks to all 

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